For all intensive purposes, a date more or less is an interview. We all value certain things, and whether it is a blind set up, someone from online, or the now (rarely seen) ‘person I met in real life’.

The ideal execution of things should be nature, with a nice flow to the conversation.

If the person gets defensive right away or deflects simple background questions (the basics), RED FLAG! 🚩

Now, if the person politely says they do not wish to disclose certain things at first, that’s okay. You just need to feel it out and make sure the vibe is good.
Much like waiting for sex till the 3rd or 4th date, some things take time. If the delivery of questions starts to become too one sided you might be getting too personal by taking at the person, not with them. Liberal women will have a reaction as they will view you as aggressive and/or brut.

Here are the basic questions of dating:

– Full name

– Where you are from (grew up)

– If not local, how you ended up where you are now.

– Education / Applicable experience(s)

– General things you with your time

– Generalized schedule

Now you can’t make this a checklist rundown. Like I said before, might it feel natural a number of wqys to get the answers without asking direct questions. For example:

– What did you do this weekend?

– Anything fun planned the rest of the summer?

These two questions can help answer what their schedule and potentially job is and insights into what they value.

Looks probably got a foot in the door for both sides, so thereno need to stress about are they into me or not?

From there, the conversation comes down to pace/tempo, mild degrees of humor, and if you fit into the plans they have with their life.

Avoid this (see below)