Trust is one of the hardest things to earn. Traditionally it used to be the men you had to worry about but cheating or being by either people. A dog is a dog but think about the how and why for a second.

Men – typically – just want to get their dick wet. I’ve seen it go wrong in so many ways but their really isn’t much of a degree of mal intent behind the actions, more of a caveman instinct to plant seed and move on.

Women – traditionally – would be lured into cheating by a sense of need or belong or rather something fundamentally missing they feel they need or are entitled to. The action is usually someone else’s fault because their the victim.

Now before I get a bit too ahead of myself… the topic at hand is -being single and dating in modern times.

The reality of dating today is that there is a world of possibilities are your fingertips.

Not, that previously you could do whatever you wanted or there were barriers stopping you, but it involved effort and a degree of exposure. That alone kept a lot of people in check and discouraged them from being exposed.

Nowadays, instant gratification with a sense of entitlement is achievable for anyone who lacks ETHOS (morality and ethics).

It’s kind of funny now that everything is ‘the UBER of _____’

If you’re going to work it best to be smart about things and keep you house in order. BUT some people can’t help themselves.
The joy of social media and these messaging apps is the depravity it exposes in people.

Two of the girls I exchanged numbers with recently, one of which I had a date scheduled Friday, posted pics showing off their fancy rewards from the day.
Now, I don’t care about them going on a date with someone else. Rather I care more about the character they have and how they want to be seen by others.

P.T. Barnum famously said “there’s a sucker born every minute“. Not trying to have that be me.

So if you’re going to project this image, I will accept this as a challenge to either break you of your bad habits or simply teacher you a lesson about using people for selfish reasons.